21-04-02

i find myself imitating the person I am in care to care for…the so called down syndrome try to understand the death of someone close…even a boyfriend…just to make it more concrete.

a person with down syndrome…a wonderful person with more qualities in life than me.. had a boyfriend that she loved and talked about in the most loving ways…She loved him in so many ways and yet we ”normal” ignore or her ways of handling her sadness/sorrow. The sadness is that we try to define sorrow of a lost one in these so called disfunctional peoples life. For me it is on the contarary ..they have a right to their way of expressing sorrow of someone they lost. I so dislike when we because of the so called disabiliity brush away their right of expreissing sorrow.. I believe we can learn from these so called disability syndroms…because we so called normal have disability….when someone passes on.