what I have learned from a very hard lesson is that the most obvious most sure…what you were absolute sure, that you could trust….stabbed you in the back! we knew each other for over 40 years back,,,shared a lot of secrets…passions…stories… everything…and I thought loyalty was worth more than anything….we drank whisky, beer and..we travelled …saw new things together…shared thoughts that I believed were sacred sealed by friendship….learned that humility was a virtue not a value that needed to be earned…and this friendship stabbed me in the back…accussing me of all thoose ”secrets” turned into ”truths” meaning that I had to defend my self against a long time friendship trust……How do you defend yourself when you are stabbed in the back by trust?!