21-05-05

how do you approach a problem/situation/decision in life…? The outcome of your decison can be determined of which of the above you choose to approach the problem…etc. I have and am still learing how to keep these two approaches apart.. because if I choose the wrong one the outcome can be very wrong. I will try to give some examples… If I go to buy something and I have to make a choice…I dont internalise it and analyse…it is a choice that should not involve my internelising…than I am using the wrong approach….sorry to say tooo many today especially young people internalise these kind of choices and the result..they get confused..messed up and make the wrong decisions…in a way this is one of the problems today…decision making…how do you make a decision. internalisation decisions for me only happen in crisis situation..like when my parents died(not exactly a crisis..it was expected) but i have had some unexpected crisis…that I was not prepared for…this activated my internal emotions/feelings. so I had to deal with them from a different perspective.