… personality! I was talking to a friend today about the likes and dislikes about ones personality! What do I mean? Well to put it simply, some people like you and some dislike you. To further this thought, I have my likes and dislikes as well about people. The point that I am trying to make and my self analyse is how people like or dislike me! I am definetly not an all in likeable person but I have also developed a likeable personality as well.<\/p>\n
I have learned to know a lot of people in my life. They have come and gone and some have come back, whereas some have furthered and become more distant. Some people I have choosen to put in my distant relationship category, even to the point that I hardly say hello to them anymore. Living in a small town, 15.000 inhabitants, it is some times difficult to avoid the meeting, seeing each other on the street. I have reclassified these former close aquatinses to 3 distinct categories. \u00a0Number 1 category is the ones that I can stop and have a surface conversation about weather, family, general topics but nothing deeper. Number 2 category is just \u00a0a hello or a how are you but nothing more. Number 3 is nothing, it is like you are passing air. No show of sentiments or recognition even in my body language you would not detect any recognition!<\/p>\n
Of course there are other categories as well and that is thoose that pass the above mentioned number ones! Family, close friends, workmates with which I have much closer and intimate communication. Being able to open up and be more honest\/ vulnerable with. But there have been thoose that I have been intimate with and they have ended up in the above mentioned number 3 category. Sometimes they actually done this by their own choice or I have done it, especially if they have betrayed my trust and hurt me or my family (especially my kids) in a harmful or vicious way.<\/p>\n
So now is my point, because all this that I mentioned above is happening to me as well! I am being treated exactly the same. This is where it is becoming interesting for me. I love to analyze myself and my own behaviour and how people react to me and form their opinion about me.<\/p>\n
You and I are 3 persons! Number 1, the one you think you are, number 2 , the person others think you are and number 3, the person you really are! Number 1 and 2 are easy but the number 3 is the difficult one! How can you get at this one? It must be a combination of 1 and 2! So this is \u00a0my discourse and dilemma. How do you reach stage 3? This is why I wrote the above to kind of set the stage for discussion! How do you find out who you really are and can say that you know yourself?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
… personality! I was talking to a friend today about the likes and dislikes about ones personality! What do I mean? Well to put it simply, some people like you and some dislike you. To further this thought, I have my likes and dislikes as well about people. The point that I am trying to … Forts\u00e4tt l\u00e4sa My multiple complex…<\/span>