{"id":640,"date":"2016-12-28T23:04:07","date_gmt":"2016-12-28T22:04:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=640"},"modified":"2017-01-18T20:33:11","modified_gmt":"2017-01-18T19:33:11","slug":"imposing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=640","title":{"rendered":"Imposing…or intruding\/enforcing?"},"content":{"rendered":"

..oneself! I am imposing\/enforcing an experiment on myself?? What does it mean? Is it dramatic? Or is it just a simple confirmation on who I am or in what way I am looked upon, even how I look at myself\/ME! The social, happy person making contacts with just about anyone without problems! Often initiating the contact! And this is also with my friends! Or?? Sometimes I feel it is toooooo much of a one way contact\/communication!! I often write them a sms or email or phonecall!! ”Go for a beer\/coffee?” seldom being the one being called upon! Not that they decline or say NO! But sometimes maybe I am IMPOSING! Because if they have something else they dont have any problems cancel the meeting even if it was decided upon, like you cancel the appointment with your dentist, doctor, hairdresser….! ”Sorry, Torbj\u00f6rn, something came up! See you next time!”<\/p>\n

And I want to say ”Sorry for imposing on your time! Sorry for asking to ask to meet! Take a beer or coffe! I understand you have more important things in life to attend to!”<\/p>\n

I have no problems with being a loner, taking a beer or coffee by myself! But I also enjoy company friendship, but not at any cost!<\/p>\n

Sometimes this is why I feel like I am an imposer(not imposter!) intruding in peoples lifes. Oblige them to see me\/ meet me , but me most of the time initiating the contact like I wrote before!<\/p>\n

So my experiment is! Will I ”celebrate” New Years Eve by myself? Because I am not going to ” impose” ask ” Hello! What are you doing? New Years Eve?” because one friend already said that ”something came up!” after we had decided to celebrate!<\/p>\n

And I am not going to impose\/ask anyone! Just curious if anybody will ask\/invite me!<\/p>\n

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..oneself! I am imposing\/enforcing an experiment on myself?? What does it mean? Is it dramatic? Or is it just a simple confirmation on who I am or in what way I am looked upon, even how I look at myself\/ME! The social, happy person making contacts with just about anyone without problems! Often initiating the … Forts\u00e4tt l\u00e4sa Imposing…or intruding\/enforcing?<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-640","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal-reflections"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/640","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=640"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/640\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":655,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/640\/revisions\/655"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}