{"id":1980,"date":"2022-03-26T13:17:32","date_gmt":"2022-03-26T12:17:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aste.se\/?p=1980"},"modified":"2022-03-26T14:03:30","modified_gmt":"2022-03-26T13:03:30","slug":"externalise-internalise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=1980","title":{"rendered":"externalise..internalise.."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\" align=\"center\"><b style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><u>21-05-05<\/u><\/b><\/p>\nhow do you approach a problem\/situation\/decision in life&#8230;? The outcome of your decison can be determined of which of the above you choose to approach the problem&#8230;etc.\n\n<!-- \/wp:post-content --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n\nI have and am still learing how to keep these two approaches apart.. because if I choose the wrong one the outcome can be very wrong.\n\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n\nI will try to give some examples&#8230;\n\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n\nIf I go to buy something and I have to make a choice&#8230;I dont internalise it\nand analyse&#8230;it is a choice that should not involve my internelising&#8230;than I\nam using the wrong approach&#8230;.sorry to say tooo many today especially young people internalise these kind of choices and the result..they get\nconfused..messed up and make the wrong decisions&#8230;in a way this is one of the problems today&#8230;decision making&#8230;how do you make a decision.\n\ninternalisation decisions for me only happen in crisis situation..like when\nmy parents died(not exactly a crisis..it was expected) but i have had some\nunexpected crisis&#8230;that I was not prepared for&#8230;this activated my internal\nemotions\/feelings. so I had to deal with them from a different perspective.","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>21-05-05 how do you approach a problem\/situation\/decision in life&#8230;? The outcome of your decison can be determined of which of the above you choose to approach the problem&#8230;etc. I have and am still learing how to keep these two approaches apart.. because if I choose the wrong one the outcome can be very wrong. I &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=1980\" class=\"more-link\">Forts\u00e4tt l\u00e4sa <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">externalise..internalise..<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1980","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal-reflections"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1980","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1980"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1980\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2006,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1980\/revisions\/2006"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}