{"id":1786,"date":"2020-11-27T19:12:04","date_gmt":"2020-11-27T18:12:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=1786"},"modified":"2020-11-27T19:12:04","modified_gmt":"2020-11-27T18:12:04","slug":"i-was-wrong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=1786","title":{"rendered":"i was wrong&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>has come to be one of the most liberating(relief) words(sentenence) in my life. Especially when it comes to people that I have had to change my mind\/opinion about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is not that in a way I was wrong, because these people that I am thinking about was in the past living in a lets say a questionable life. (as a paranteses..so did I!) So people could be right about me&#8230;but I have changed..maybe too many times!!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anyway these people that I now have come in contact with..through work and other channels have definetly changed and have become totally different persons. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A background is that when I worked in social work in my hometown I came in contact with a lot of people with a questionable way of life. So this is the background..about 20 years back in time, Where I was the &#8221;good&#8221; guy and they were the &#8221;bad&#8221; guys so to say. Anyway to make a long story short&#8230;now it has past 20 years and in some instances maybe more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I meet these people today&#8230;and I can just say,,fantastic. So wherein lies the problem, the intrigue, the question? We both sit in front of each other today&#8230;I know&#8230;her\/his past&#8230;and have this picture, opinion&#8230;from the past&#8230;as a shadow,,hanging over the whole conversation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why it is so delicate is that in the past I was the superior\/good guy and he\/she was the bad\/in need of rehab person! But now?? We are equals!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What is eating on me is to say to this person&#8230;how much I admire and in a way say..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am sorry&#8230;I was wrong! Because YOU have come out on the other side..with flying colours and you are a humble loving emphatic person that are worth more than just my apology and recognition&#8230;You have my respect!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>has come to be one of the most liberating(relief) words(sentenence) in my life. Especially when it comes to people that I have had to change my mind\/opinion about. It is not that in a way I was wrong, because these people that I am thinking about was in the past living in a lets say &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=1786\" class=\"more-link\">Forts\u00e4tt l\u00e4sa <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">i was wrong&#8230;<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1786","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal-reflections"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1786","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1786"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1786\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1788,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1786\/revisions\/1788"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1786"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1786"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1786"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}