{"id":1688,"date":"2020-08-24T22:17:37","date_gmt":"2020-08-24T20:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=1688"},"modified":"2020-08-31T13:36:18","modified_gmt":"2020-08-31T11:36:18","slug":"asset-or-liability","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=1688","title":{"rendered":"asset or liability?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8230;has Always been to me a balancing question&#8230;because there are so many factors involved\u2026.I have an opinion of you&#8230;you have an opinion of me&#8230;you think that you know me&#8230;I think I know you\u2026. I make a my preconceived ideas who you are and you make the same of me etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The problem in alllll of these self constructed analysis\/selfmade constructions\/ideas, you think that it is so\/and I think that it is so! And then you share these ideas\/opinions with others like it is some kind of truth&#8230;of this person and guess what..I do the same. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am the first to confess to fall into this trap&#8230;and I do it allll the time. Sometimes out of convinence&#8230;it it better to shut up then to &#8221;put your foot in the mouth&#8221; and sometimes because I honestly think it is so, because the person that have these ideas\/opinion is a friend (not a close friend, which is a difference)&#8230;that make me go along and sometimes I dont know why?? Ask yourself how many times you are in this situation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have a concrete example&#8230;at work I am a professional that actually are not allowed to voice your personal opinion and you are subject to a professional identity! So what happens? Sometimes the person&#8230;that are a client\/patient etc..has strong opinions about something that is completly against your own beliefs and principales! Can you voice them? No you cannot! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I still consider myself an asset..and not a liability! Sometimes in Life you have to balance your account\/life and come to some sort of conclusion. Of course you can add your liabilities (which I have plenty) but where does thoose get you? When you are at my age it is time to add your assets&#8230;where did I go right..made the right descions&#8230;the right turns\u2026! And I think with allll the wrong I made some things right!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So yes I think of myself an asset to life&#8230;how about you? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The best asset in life is to be able to say &#8221; You were right and I was wrong..&#8221; then you are still a person that are alive!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;has Always been to me a balancing question&#8230;because there are so many factors involved\u2026.I have an opinion of you&#8230;you have an opinion of me&#8230;you think that you know me&#8230;I think I know you\u2026. I make a my preconceived ideas who you are and you make the same of me etc. The problem in alllll of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/aste.se\/?p=1688\" class=\"more-link\">Forts\u00e4tt l\u00e4sa <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">asset or liability?<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1688","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal-reflections"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1688","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1688"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1688\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1698,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1688\/revisions\/1698"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1688"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1688"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/aste.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1688"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}